The minds of children experiencing the loss of a loving fit parent, as a direct result of California’s family and juvenile dependency, will focus on surviving that incredible loss and that means focusing on themselves. Can adults reprogram their minds to change what these court systems caused to happen to them as children? I like to listen to Joe Dispenza, a chiropractor, who suggests that if we want to change, we need to have new thoughts and feelings that aren’t based on our past childhood experiences or check here for more information about self-awareness.